{"id":379,"date":"2018-06-12T21:17:41","date_gmt":"2018-06-13T02:17:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.christianlifegroups.org\/share\/?p=379"},"modified":"2025-12-12T15:43:09","modified_gmt":"2025-12-12T21:43:09","slug":"what-is-a-christian","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.christianlifegroups.com\/blogs\/what-is-a-christian\/","title":{"rendered":"What is a Christian?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>For me, in simple terms, a Christian is a follower of Jesus Christ. <!--more--><\/p>\n<p>These days we have watered down the term &#8220;follower&#8221; because in social media, we can follow someone with a &#8220;click&#8221;.\u00a0 And then when that person posts something, we get notified via email.<\/p>\n<p>If we even read our emails anymore, everything is automated.\u00a0 Impersonal.\u00a0 Detached.<\/p>\n<p>The term &#8220;Christian&#8221; is also used as a &#8220;religious&#8221; description. It&#8217;s like a nationality, where do you belong, what part of the world did you come from.\u00a0 It&#8217;s used like a &#8220;label&#8221;.\u00a0 But to the truest sense of the term, the word &#8220;Christian&#8221;, when used as a label, doesn&#8217;t mean anything.<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s just the way mankind may be able to label you.\u00a0 Kind of like if you are an American, or Asian, or Japanese, or Canadian, or Indian, etc. Yeah, one can be a Christian, Muslim, Hindu, Buddhist, Atheist, etc. There may be perks to having a certain type of nationality &#8211; traveling perks, etc. Belonging to a certain type of man-made religion may &#8220;group&#8221; you into a body of &#8220;doctrines&#8221; that a member of that religion must follow and live up to.\u00a0 It&#8217;s belonging somewhere.<\/p>\n<p>But the label doesn&#8217;t describe the essence of what it is to be a Christian.\u00a0 To be worthy to be called a follower of Jesus Christ.<\/p>\n<p>A whole lot of people who call themselves Christians, may have been born into such a family who practiced the &#8220;rituals&#8221; of Christianity.\u00a0 And then be just as lost and confused as an unbeliever.<\/p>\n<p><strong>A Christian is a follower of Jesus Christ.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>One cannot follow anyone they do not like.<\/p>\n<p>One cannot follow anyone they do not know.<\/p>\n<p>One cannot follow anyone they do not respect.<\/p>\n<p>God draws people to Him.\u00a0 God sends people, or resources, to share God&#8217;s gospel to them.<\/p>\n<p>And those who seek Him, will find Him.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, Jesus, that whosoever believes in Him should not perish but have eternal life.&#8221;<br \/>\n&#8211; John 3:16 (NASB), <a class=\"row-title\" href=\"https:\/\/www.christianlifegroups.com\/you-must-be-born-again-john-31-15-kjv\/\" label=\"\u201cThe New Birth \u2013 (John 3:1-21)\u201d (Edit)\">The New Birth \u2013 (John 3:1-21)<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>We see this quote everywhere.\u00a0 A whole lot of Christians share it.<\/p>\n<p>But until , and UNTIL, God breaks one&#8217;s hardened heart, can that message actually sink in, in the life of\u00a0 that person.<\/p>\n<p>We can&#8217;t impress God.\u00a0 We can&#8217;t fool God.\u00a0 <em>He knows us inside out.\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p>God knows we are imperfect.\u00a0 God knows that left to our own, there&#8217;ll be perpetual chaos.\u00a0 Such is the god-less world we live in now.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Being a &#8220;follower&#8221;\u00a0 has requirements.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>If we follow traffic rules, or government rules or school rules, that &#8220;may&#8221; make us a good citizen or student, but we may just be following such rules so that we don&#8217;t get penalized, or so we can get the diploma, but is our &#8220;heart&#8221; in it?\u00a0 Or do we do it just to stay out of trouble?\u00a0 Or to try to subscribe and conform to what everybody else is doing?<\/p>\n<p><strong>What are God&#8217;s rules?\u00a0 There&#8217;s just 10.\u00a0 Ten!\u00a0<\/strong> And they are God&#8217;s commandments, they&#8217;re not just mere suggestions:<\/p>\n<p>1) Love God above all. You shall have no other gods. (Exodus 20:3)<\/p>\n<p>2) You shall not use the name of the Lord God in vain. (Exodus 20:7)<\/p>\n<p>3) You shall honor the Sabbath and make it holy. (Exodus 20:8)<\/p>\n<p>4) You shall honor your parents.\u00a0 (Exodus 20:12)<\/p>\n<p>5) You shall not kill.\u00a0 (Exodus 20:13)<\/p>\n<p>6) You shall not commit adultery.\u00a0 (Exodus 20:14)<\/p>\n<p>7) You shall not steal.\u00a0 (Exodus 20:15)<\/p>\n<p>8) You shall not bear false witness.\u00a0 (Exodus 20:16)<\/p>\n<p>9) You shall not covet your neighbor&#8217;s wife. (Exodus 20:17)<\/p>\n<p>10) You shall not covet your neighbor&#8217;s goods. (Exodus 20:17)<\/p>\n<p>Let me look up the exact scripture:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>The Ten Commandments<\/p>\n<p>Then God spoke all these words, saying,<\/p>\n<p>2 \u201cI am the Lord your God, who brought you out of the land of Egypt, out of the house of slavery.\u00a0<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">\u00a03 \u201cYou shall have no other gods before Me. 4 \u201cYou shall not make for yourself an idol, or any likeness of what is in heaven above or on the earth beneath or in the water under the earth. 5 You shall not worship them or serve them; for I, the Lord your God, am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers on the children, on the third and the fourth generations of those who hate Me, 6 but showing lovingkindness to thousands, to those who love Me and keep My commandments.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">7 \u201cYou shall not take the name of the Lord your God in vain, for the Lord will not leave him unpunished who takes His name in vain.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">8 \u201cRemember the sabbath day, to keep it holy. 9 Six days you shall labor and do all your work, 10 but the seventh day is a sabbath of the Lord your God; in it you shall not do any work, you or your son or your daughter, your male or your female servant or your cattle or your sojourner who stays with you. 11 For in six days the Lord made the heavens and the earth, the sea and all that is in them, and rested on the seventh day; therefore the Lord blessed the sabbath day and made it holy.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">12 \u201cHonor your father and your mother, that your days may be prolonged in the land which the Lord your God gives you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">13 \u201cYou shall not murder.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">14 \u201cYou shall not commit adultery.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">15 \u201cYou shall not steal.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">16 \u201cYou shall not bear false witness against your neighbor.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">17 \u201cYou shall not covet your neighbor\u2019s house; you shall not covet your neighbor\u2019s wife or his male servant or his female servant or his ox or his donkey or anything that belongs to your neighbor.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><br \/>\n-Exodus 20:1-17 New American Standard Bible (NASB)<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>And there we go&#8230; these rules have been around since the Old Testament days.<\/p>\n<p>And humanity still always would fall short of it!<\/p>\n<p>And then we wonder &#8230;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230; why aren&#8217;t my prayers being heard?<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Separation from God<br \/>\n59\u00a0<strong>Behold, the Lord\u2019s hand is not so short<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>That it cannot save;<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>Nor is His ear so dull<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>That it cannot hear.<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>2<span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">\u00a0But your iniquities have made a separation between you and your God,<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n<strong><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">And your sins have hidden His face from you so that He does not hear.<\/span><\/strong><br \/>\n3 For your hands are defiled with blood<br \/>\nAnd your fingers with iniquity;<br \/>\nYour lips have spoken falsehood,<br \/>\nYour tongue mutters wickedness.<br \/>\n4 No one sues righteously and no one pleads honestly.<br \/>\nThey trust in confusion and speak lies;<br \/>\nThey conceive mischief and bring forth iniquity.<br \/>\n&#8211; Isaiah 59:1-4 (NASB), <a href=\"https:\/\/www.christianlifegroups.com\/evil-and-oppression-isaiah-591-13-kjv\/\">Evil and Oppression \u2013 (Isaiah 59:1-13) KJV<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>God is not our bellhop, that when we pray, He grants immediately.\u00a0 That&#8217;s having something like a &#8220;microwave mentality&#8221;.<\/p>\n<p>That we sin against this Holy God and then expect Him to hear our prayers, just because we prayed.<\/p>\n<p>No His hands are not too short!<\/p>\n<p>Can you imagine that?\u00a0 A God with short hands?\u00a0 I actually laughed so hard when I heard about that verse of scripture the first time, and then I looked it up and studied it more, I was just laughing at myself and how foolish I have been all these years!<\/p>\n<p>I foolishly and erroneously thought before that when I prayed for something, and He doesn&#8217;t grant it, that &#8220;maybe there was no God.&#8221; How foolish I was!<\/p>\n<p>It took a man of God to share such a scripture, to plant that seed in me to actually WANT to look it up myself in my bible.<\/p>\n<p>He hears our prayers when we come to Him through Jesus in repentance of our sins <em>first<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>That we acknowledge and reverence Him as God,<em> first<\/em>.\u00a0 Our God.<\/p>\n<p>I guess some of my prayers in the past didn&#8217;t even reach as high up to the ceiling because I then had iniquity, some sin in my life, that God wanted me to take care of first.\u00a0 Back then I didn&#8217;t even know how to pray right!\u00a0 (And Jesus taught how we should pray).\u00a0 How do we know that we have broken God&#8217;s rules?<\/p>\n<p>Do we even know God&#8217;s rules?<\/p>\n<p>How?<\/p>\n<p>Go through that 10 commandments above, SEE and you will KNOW for yourself, because only you will know, if you have broken any of God&#8217;s 10 commandments, His rules.<\/p>\n<p>Not the government&#8217;s, not the school&#8217;s rules.\u00a0 The Holy God&#8217;s rules, the one who created you and cause your heart to beat, and your eyes to see these words on your screen.<\/p>\n<p><em>Then what?<\/em><\/p>\n<p>REPENT.<\/p>\n<p>What is repentance?\u00a0 It&#8217;s our acknowledgement of wrong doing, acknowledgement of a mistake, acknowledgement of our\u00a0 sin, AND apologizing and asking for God&#8217;s forgiveness AND not doing the same old sin or mistake again.<\/p>\n<p>Ever wonder why we all keep on doing the same old mistake over and over again?\u00a0 Almost like an addiction?<\/p>\n<p>It&#8217;s called slavery.\u00a0 We humans are slaves to sin.\u00a0 Repetitive sins.<\/p>\n<p>When you read the bible enough, you will learn about &#8220;evil strongholds&#8221;, about demon possession (yes demons are real, just look at how much evil there is around us! Crimes and such!)<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why we need a Savior.<\/p>\n<p>A Lord and Savior.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s why Jesus our Saviour said this &#8230;<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>&#8220;<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, Jesus, that whosoever believes in Him should not perish but have eternal life.&#8221;<\/span><br \/>\n&#8211; John 3:16 (NASB), <a class=\"row-title\" href=\"https:\/\/www.christianlifegroups.com\/you-must-be-born-again-john-31-15-kjv\/\" label=\"\u201cThe New Birth \u2013 (John 3:1-21)\u201d (Edit)\">The New Birth \u2013 (John 3:1-21)<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>If we believe, follow, obey Jesus, and ask for His help, to save us from our sins, <em><strong>He Will!\u00a0<\/strong><\/em><\/p>\n<p>Because it IS God&#8217;s Will to save all of us!<\/p>\n<p>God will draw us to Him.<\/p>\n<p>He could use people, resources, a blog post, a forum, SOMETHING, to get you to want to know Him.<\/p>\n<p>But because we are all sinful, even if we pray, because of our inquities, unless we repent and turn from our wicked ways, He won&#8217;t hear us.<\/p>\n<p>Jesus said this..<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Jesus said to him,\u00a0<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">\u201cI am the way, and the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father but through Me.&#8221; <\/span>&#8211; John 14:6\u00a0 (NASB). <a class=\"row-title\" href=\"https:\/\/www.christianlifegroups.com\/i-am-the-way-and-the-truth-and-the-life-john-141-14-kjv\/\" label=\"\u201cJesus Comforts His Disciples \u2013 (John 14:1-6)\u201d (Edit)\">Jesus Comforts His Disciples \u2013 (John 14:1-6)<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><strong>Being Born Again<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>A follower of Christ, a Christian, is one who has been born again.<\/p>\n<p>Sorry, there&#8217;s no other version or denomination of Christianity.\u00a0 Jesus said so.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>3 Jesus replied,\u00a0<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">\u201cVery truly I tell you, no one can see the kingdom of God unless they are born again.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p>4 \u201cHow can someone be born when they are old?\u201d Nicodemus asked. \u201cSurely they cannot enter a second time into their mother\u2019s womb to be born!\u201d<\/p>\n<p>5 Jesus answered,\u00a0<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">\u201cVery truly I tell you, no one can enter the kingdom of God unless they are born of water and the Spirit. 6 Flesh gives birth to flesh, but the Spirit gives birth to spirit. 7 You should not be surprised at my saying, \u2018You must be born again.\u2019 8 The wind blows wherever it pleases. You hear its sound, but you cannot tell where it comes from or where it is going. So it is with everyone born of the Spirit.<\/span>\u201d &#8211; John 3:3-5 (NASB), <a class=\"row-title\" href=\"https:\/\/www.christianlifegroups.com\/you-must-be-born-again-john-31-15-kjv\/\" label=\"\u201cThe New Birth \u2013 (John 3:1-21)\u201d (Edit)\">The New Birth \u2013 (John 3:1-21)<\/a><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>One doesn&#8217;t become a Christian because they&#8217;ve been sprinkled water as a baby.\u00a0 They may have been &#8220;dedicated&#8221; or &#8220;offered&#8221; as a baby.\u00a0 But doing that ritual doesn&#8217;t make a baby a Christian.<\/p>\n<p>Following Christ is a personal decision.<\/p>\n<p>A personal<em> informed<\/em> decision.<\/p>\n<p>An acknowledgement that one needs saving from his or her own sins.\u00a0 Bondage of sin.\u00a0 The slavery of sin.<\/p>\n<p>God does not want us to be or to remain slaves of sin.\u00a0 Because He knows it hurts US.<\/p>\n<p>Being born again is like being born again as a &#8220;spiritual baby&#8221;, and like any birth, there is a process.\u00a0 There&#8217;s pregnancy of 9 months gestation, and then the time of birth.<\/p>\n<p>When I became born again, I guess I was already in hell that time with no where else to go.\u00a0 But I knew in my heart of hearts that there was a God, I was born into another religion and how I was taught about God is one that was so far from who God really is.<\/p>\n<p>And it wasn&#8217;t the God of the bible I was first indoctrinated with. It was a god of rituals, a god who I can&#8217;t pray to directly, because I have to go through a woman or a saint, declared as so by a church.<\/p>\n<p>You have to memorize prayers like incantations and pray them over and over again as if that would impress God that you memorized those prayers!\u00a0 It was a religion of, if you sin, you confess to another person and then that person tells you to pray some prayer repetitively, and then you can trust that you&#8217;re forgiven.\u00a0 Well supposedly.\u00a0 Until you repetitively sin that same old sin again.<\/p>\n<p>I had way too many questions growing up and when I became born again, it was a real personal choice, a real personal cleansing, and becoming.<\/p>\n<p>A born again Christian may have like an &#8220;instant&#8221; change.\u00a0 I have seen people who have been &#8220;delivered&#8221; instantly from whatever it is that they are in bondage of.<\/p>\n<p>Mine was from my heart getting cleansed.\u00a0 My hardened heart getting changed.\u00a0 My sense of understanding deepening as I read the bible and seemingly the Word, God&#8217;s Words seem like they are popping out of the pages!<\/p>\n<p>God is a personal God.\u00a0 He is not a customizable god, He IS Almighty God.<\/p>\n<p>As a follower of Christ, expect to be mocked, ridiculed, ostracized, misjudged, called names, etc. etc.<\/p>\n<p>And I really am ALL FINE with that.<\/p>\n<p>That&#8217;s the mystery of God&#8217;s saving grace..<\/p>\n<p>He teaches a follower what to say &#8230;<\/p>\n<p>It took two years after I registered this domain name that I am putting content here again.\u00a0 Trying again.\u00a0 The previous CMS got spammed big time.\u00a0 And then life happened.\u00a0 This website project got shelved. My behind the scenes Christian activities didn&#8217;t.<\/p>\n<p>I was afraid to be publishing my thoughts again.\u00a0 I felt unworthy.\u00a0 I felt like I wasn&#8217;t ready.\u00a0 I am not a bible scholar.<\/p>\n<p>But a couple of days ago, in deep prayer for someone else&#8217;s Dad, it was like THIS website was once again brought to my mind by God.<\/p>\n<p>He gave me tech skills.\u00a0 He has delivered me from the bondage of slavery and sin.\u00a0 He has used other people in my past to plant those seeds of faith in me, and it grew.<\/p>\n<p>If this website can share in the good seeds worth sharing, then it is all worth it.<\/p>\n<p>This website is not about me.<\/p>\n<p>It is about the Jesus Christ I follow.<\/p>\n<p>And that to me, is what a Christian is.<\/p>\n<p>Someone who has put everything at the foot of the cross, and have decided to listen and obey Jesus when He said<\/p>\n<p><strong><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">&#8220;Come, Follow Me.&#8221;<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Prayer<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">\u201cAnd when you pray, do not be like the hypocrites, for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and on the street corners to be seen by others. Truly I tell you, they have received their reward in full. 6 But when you pray, go into your room, close the door and pray to your Father, who is unseen. Then your Father, who sees what is done in secret, will reward you. 7 And when you pray, do not keep on babbling like pagans, for they think they will be heard because of their many words. 8 Do not be like them, for your Father knows what you need before you ask him.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">9 \u201cThis, then, is how you should pray:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">\u201c\u2018Our Father in heaven,<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Holy be Your Name,<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">10 Your Kingdom come,<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">Your Will be done,<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">\u00a0 \u00a0 on earth as it is in heaven.<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">11 Give us today our daily bread.<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">12 And forgive us our debts,<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">\u00a0 \u00a0 as we also have forgiven our debtors.<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">13 And lead us not into temptation,<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">\u00a0 \u00a0 but deliver us from the evil one.\u2019<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"color: #ff0000;\">14<strong> For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. 15 But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.<\/strong>&#8220;<\/span>\u00a0&#8211; Matthew 6:5-14<br \/>\nAmen.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For me, in simple terms, a Christian is a follower of Jesus Christ.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[5,6,4,7],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-379","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-christian","category-christian-life","category-questions-and-answers","category-start-knowing-believing-and-following-christ"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.christianlifegroups.com\/blogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/379","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.christianlifegroups.com\/blogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.christianlifegroups.com\/blogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.christianlifegroups.com\/blogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.christianlifegroups.com\/blogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=379"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/www.christianlifegroups.com\/blogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/379\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1267,"href":"https:\/\/www.christianlifegroups.com\/blogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/379\/revisions\/1267"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.christianlifegroups.com\/blogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=379"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.christianlifegroups.com\/blogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=379"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.christianlifegroups.com\/blogs\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=379"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}